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Paying for it: why I hired a professional
One night when being entirely way too candid at a local seedy bar, a friend preached emphatically to me, “No no, you never pay. Na-uh…” I seemed to have revealed a new cardinal sin. Forget all the vices that surrounded us in this smokey bar or the fact that we’ve reached a point in post
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Dear John: how you can be a perfect client (a guide for noobs… and experienced knobs)
“Nobody’s perfect” I like to imagine that in the voice of that old geezer’s iconic last line in Some Like It Hot. Well it’s true, nobody is perfect but you can be a perfect client. It’s satisfying knowing one can achieve greatness in at least one arena of our lives. Despite the instinct to be
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Why I identify as a frog in the sack
Years ago I found myself in a flirtatious back n forth with someone who was obviously trying to impress me with talk of female worship. He boasted of how he treats his lovers like queens and serves them graciously. Now I do enjoy pampering, I mean like any one else, but does it get me
